“Power Of Focus”

Did you know? That most people end up becoming like their parents (or guardians or whoever they were exposed to while growing up)? Did you know that many abusive men had abusive fathers who they swore to never emulate? Then, what happened? Focus did. Whatever you focus on; think about, see, and put your mind... Continue Reading →


I was shook! I mean, properly and entirely shook! It was the second day of the month, a day I can never forget, a beautiful September, I had just been enrolled into a new school in the new town we just moved to, I didn't like the move, but I didn't exactly have a choice... Continue Reading →

“Tell ‘Em”

"Tis a great confidence in a friend to tell him your faults; greater to tell him his."- Benjamin Franklin Yo you know how you have friends and it's always easier to think of telling them the truth than actually doing it? Well if you don't have that challenge, that's awesome, we probably need to know... Continue Reading →


Yo, I'm calling y'all from the land of reality, calling Utopia, calling Utopia, calling YOU TO reality. On behalf of the Republic of Reality, I Ambassador Ebube Agu with very remarkable accolades bring you this important information; NOTHING YOU DO IN UTOPIA COUNTS UNTIL YOUR WORK IS SEEN HERE IN 'REALITY' This is not to... Continue Reading →

“Who You Gat?”

Nowadays, A lot of emphasis is now laid on "Who You Gat?", who you know and those sort of things. One of the greatest causes of unhappiness (& lack of fulfillment) is the feeling of entitlement. That is, when people feel they're being owed something, Love, Money, Favour, Respect or something. People feel the World... Continue Reading →

“De Vision”

Some years ago, I learnt the secret to distracting even the most focused of men (please don't try it at home) So, seeth thou a man with vision, focused on his work, lookest thou a way to get him derailed? GIVE HIM ANOTHER VISION. It is easier to get someone that is highly focused and... Continue Reading →

“Critically Acclaimed”

This is a shout out to all the Great Analysts of our time, the Critiques, the know it all's, the always finding something wrongs, the you could have done it this way clan, the ones that can never be pleased. This is to you. If you like, don't find something and do with your life,... Continue Reading →

“Critical Steps”

If you can take a complement but not a criticism then you are positioning yourself for failure. “The trouble with most of us is that we’d rather be ruined by praise than saved by criticism.” – Norman Vincent Peale Hope you got that? It's simple, you like it when people say good things about you,... Continue Reading →


Have you ever been there the moment a child is born? Even if you haven't, I'm sure one time or another you must have experienced the naming ceremony or dedication of a child. It's always a joyous moment, most times the parents are so overjoyed that you'd think all their problems have been solved. That's... Continue Reading →


I've found that a lot of people take life "as it comes" "roll with flow" or just live hoping that things will get better. By these I mean a lot of people live passively, allowing life to happen to them over and over again. From all my years of playing basketball, besides injuries, I've picked... Continue Reading →


I should probably start speaking out more! This statement might come across as somewhat strange to people that know me but is however true. I find it hard to speak up and well at certain situations that actually require me to. People see me and think, "Eh, he doesn't have a problem speaking, he's not... Continue Reading →

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